Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Goodbye My Love
We said goodbye to Jennie last night. The lord gave Richard confirmation that it was time to let her go home to our Father in Heaven during the last couple of days of her life. After the Dr.'s gave us the test results that her brain injury was indeed very grave, yesterday afternoon, we knew it was time. I knew that looking at her sweet but failing body I had been in denial, she has been hangin around just for her loved ones to accept the truth, she had been called back to her home in heaven.
Last night at 10:00 Jennie took her last breaths on Earth. Jennie, the love we share is eternal. I'm gonna do my best to live my life in a better more purposeful way. I want to worthy to make it where I know you are at. You were an amazing example to me and my family. I love you fiercely and I know you love me right back.
The 4th of July was her favorite holiday, Richard said she liked it better than Christmas. When Jennie took her last breaths their was a firework that lit the sky through the hospital window. It felt like she was letting us know that she is happy and it will all be okay. We'll be together again someday. She will continue to love and guide her sweet family from above.
I feel the Lord has been walking with Teagan because he is still smiling and singing and telling us she will get her owies fixed in the resurrection. He's a little sober, but he says he's happy. She gave him and Hartley enough love, an amazing amount, in those few short years to last them through their lives. I promise I will love Richard and those babies forever for you Jen. I love you forever.
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My thoughts and prayers are with and for you, the family of Jennie...and for all who hold her dear. May God bless you and surround you with his love and comfort.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your family's loss. I have met Jennie a few times, (I'm Polly's sister), and I know how sweet she was. We are praying for all of you!
ReplyDeleteNick and I are so sad over the loss of Jennie. Our prayers are with you Richard and with your family. Teagan is so smart in realizing the eternal plan, what a testimony to Jennie's life that her young children understand so much about God's love.
ReplyDeleteWe love you Richard.
I was so sorry to hear about this accident & now of Jennie's passing. My prayers are going out to her family.
ReplyDeleteAbbie (Court) Lewis
Richard,
ReplyDeleteLindsay and I are so sorry to hear about Jennie. I understand how traumatic these last few weeks must surely have been for you, and I know the decision to withdraw life support must have been especially challenging. Medicine can do amazing things to heal and repair the body, but the mind is so far beyond our understanding there is little we can do to fix it. I deal with situations very similar to yours on a regular basis, and I know that you gave Jennie all the love and support you had, the medical staff gave her all the treatment they knew to do and in the end she was given the ultimate gift; mercy. It takes courage and unlimited compassion to give that final gift, many people aren't strong enough to make that decision.
Lindsay and I will keep you and your kiddos in our thoughts.
Ben
Richard,
ReplyDeleteYou are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. You both have touched our lives in many ways. Jennie will be greatly missed. We are here for you in any way we can help.
all our love, the smiths.
ReplyDeleteeven though we am sad jenny left we know that she is with her father in heaven and she is ok. we will love her ever and always see you when we come
ReplyDelete- Aspen Kube and Portia Finster
Jen and I met in our single lady years. She was such a fun, spirited, supportive, generous, thoughtful friend. I always admired her thought, determination, and focus she put into everything she did. I can't say and think enough good things about Jennie. One fun memory of many was taking a road trip together to California to the beach and Disneyland with some of our gal pals. What a fun time. That girl even dragged me to a country dance. She could sure cut a rug! I love you Jennie, and will deeply miss you. Always in my heart. -Angie Papa
ReplyDeleteI am in tears knowing now the loss in your family. Only knowing you all from the accident I have been mindful of your family everyday since!! I pray in this great time of need that the lord may comfort you and your cute,sweet kids as you are to continue your journey here upon the earth. not knowing you well at all I have felt this spot in my heart for your family through this whole thing. hugs from us to you --Tawnie
ReplyDeleteWe will miss you Jennie. -Sim family
ReplyDeleteRichard and Family, I've been trying to find the words since I heard of Jennies passing. I'm so sorry for your loss. Truly heartbreaking news. We are praying for you guys!!
ReplyDeleteRichard & family, We are praying for you in this difficult time. You are in our thoughts & hearts daily. May our Heavenly Father's love surround you & comfort you during this incredible trial.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I did not know Jennie well, but she was an amazing, kind woman. God be with you till you meet again.
ReplyDeleteWe are all saddened by the loss of our dear friend, and our hearts go out to her family, especially Richard and the kids. There is nothing that will ever replace Jennie being a part of those kid's lives as they grow up. Though I have no doubt that she will be there and be a part of their lives every chance she gets. I knew Jennie through my wife Somer Martin, who would consider Jennie one of her best friends. I wish I could put to words the amount of joy and love you could feel from just being around her. Jennie was one of the sweetest people I have every known, and there is no doubt in my mind that she will find herself counted among those in the highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom when that day comes.
ReplyDeleteI heard rumors of a funeral service possibly this weekend in UT. I wanted to know if there were any updates. I was also wondering if a service is also being considered for AZ, as this is where she called home for many years, and I'm sure that there are many of her friends who would love to be a part of that.
We love and miss you Jennie!
There will be a service in Utah this Saturday and one in Fort Collins is being planned. Details will be posted later when they are finalized. Thanks for your patience.
DeleteSarah,
DeleteMy wife was good friends with Jennie and we live here in Utah could you let us know when the services are and how we can help?
Evan and Lindy Iund
The graveside services in Murray are for family only. We would love to have all other friends and loved ones join us in Fort Collins next weekend. We don't have the time and date set yet. Thank you for your love and concern.
DeleteThank you for posting information on the funeral/memorial services. It is wonderful you are doing one in Fort Collins because we would love to support the family in attending.
DeleteAnd we will miss Jennie very much. Hang in there and be strong. We love you guys. :)
The Sheafors
Richard,
ReplyDeleteWe love your family so much, you guys were the very first people we met in the CLP ward. You and Jennie made us feel so welcome. We are so sorry for you loss and can't imagine what you are going through. Jennie was an amazing person filled with so much love and generosity. I remember last year we got to spend the day with Jennie and the kids in Wellington, CO for there fourth of July parade and celebration it was so much fun. We feel truly blessed to have known her, been around her even if that time was brief. We are here if you need anything no matter what it is. We would like to know when and where services are going to be as well. having you as a home teacher and being your home teacher was an awesome experience I have treasured. We consider you a friend very special friend if you need anything at all call us the number is (970)779-4369.
Love,
Will and Kirsten Brewer
I am so sad to hear of Jennie's loss. She was a wonderful person and I really enjoyed getting to know her while we were at NAU and the friendship that came from that.
ReplyDeleteI remember when she first started to like Richard. I had known him growing up and she asked me what I thought and how she could get his attention.
I love the photos that are posted on this blog because they depict Jennie so well-her beautiful smile, and sweet spirit. She will be missed, but I know that Heavenly Father has her where he needs her. I look forward to seeing her again.
Sam Fillerup
Dear Richard, I love you my friend and I wish this wasn't happening. I am praying to our Heavenly Father that He may give you the strength to bear this painful process. I have loved Jennie so much and I'm going to miss her very much and the powerful team you guys made together. Although she's gone from this existence, I find comfort in knowing that she's happy where she's at, We better prepare our selves before we meet her cause she's gonna be so ahead of the game, but I look forward to that day when we can all hang out together again! I'm going to miss the wonderful time we had together. I can not describe the deep emptiness I feel every time I think that Jennie has left mortality and that she won't be coming to visit anymore.
ReplyDeleteMy prayer are with you dear friend!
Juan
Richard,
ReplyDeleteWe both told ourselves when we first heard about the accident that Jennie would just pull out of it and everything would be back to normal again somehow. I think it's just cause we couldn't imagine her being gone. We still can't. I've been crying ever since 5:00 when Juan came bursting out of the computer room to say that she was gone. We've been sitting on the couch talking about it all night, trying to believe it. Maybe some day we will. We're actually both really happy for her because we know she must be having a great time seeing the bigger picture and knowing everything is just fine, but our hearts ache for you and the kids. And because we'll miss her. We were looking at pictures from our NY trip tonight, so glad that we all did that. I always had hope that you guys would move back to Arizona so we could all hang out again. You guys really are our best friends. We pray for you and your family constantly. I'm so sorry Richard. We love you. We ache to be able to do something for you. We're always here for you if you need us.
Audrianne
Richard,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. We had just started to get to know Jennie and are very sadden by your loss. She was a sweet and wonderful person. Our son Jack met Teagan in funtime and my husband and I were able to spend some time with her at his birthday party. She made an indelible amazing impression on us. If you ever need anything. Especially but not limited to day care please feel free to call me I am a stay at home mom and would be more than happy to enjoy Teagan and Hartley's company anytime. We are so sorry for you and your families loss!!!
Kelly, Dominic,Jack and baby Lily Regan
(970)568-8901
Richard, Teagan & Hartley,
ReplyDeleteWe are so so sorry for your loss as well. Jennie was a wonderful woman and an amazing Mom. We had also just started to get to know her (our son Jason was also in funtime with Teagan and went to his awesome circus b-day party) and I am blown away by this tragic event. As Kelly said, we would also be more than happy to babysit at any time. Teagan and Hartley are wonderful children. We only live about 5 minutes away from you all so we're pretty convenient as well. Please don't hesitate to call. It would be our pleasure.
Our deepest condolences go out to you during this time.
Kat, Mike, Jason & Gray Reeves
(970)214-9907
Our prayers are with your sweet family. Mosiah 16:7,8 and Alma 40:11,12 have brought peace and understanding to me. We know that Jennie is not gone. Years back I heard Elder Neal Maxwell talk of the importance of understanding the grammar of the gospel, that “Death is a mere comma, not an exclamation point!”
ReplyDelete- Devin and Lisa Ashby
Words cannot express. We love you!
ReplyDeleteAmy (Blake) York and family
Richard and family,
ReplyDeleteI am so terribly sorry for the loss of your sweet Jennie. I went to hygiene school with her and always admired her positive spirit, her genuine laughter and her compassion for others. She is truly a gem and I am lucky to have known her.
Sara Pisa
Richard and family,
ReplyDeleteI remember her smile the most in hygiene school, she always tried to stay up beat even in the most trying times. I'm saddened by her leaving and feel very selfish in wishing her here because I know she was a positive and bright light on this earth. My thoughts and prayers to you and yours. Jennifer Weber
Dear Richard, Teagan and Hartley,
ReplyDeleteJennie was my friend in dental hygiene school. I want you guys to know how smiley, smart and meticulous she was in school. She always worked so hard and was the last one to pack up everyday! She was loved by all of us and will truly be missed.
We are also friends with Richard. We know what a capable, calm and strong person you are. It is not easy but you are and will be the best father to your darling children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love
Christy baker and Mark Maziarz
Our prayers are with you and your family today.
ReplyDeleteso thankful to have met and become friends with jennie. jake and i really enjoyed our friendship with your family while we were in ft. collins. love to you and to both your famililes. we will continue praying for you all.
ReplyDeleteI've wanted to say something for days now but I just can't find the right words... I'm so grateful for the time we were able to spend with you guys getting to know you in Fort Collins. I'm so sorry for your loss and the heartache you must feel. I'm so thankful for the Gospel and the understanding that we have. It doesn't take away the pain but it helps to know that we will see Jennie again. Our prayers are with you and will continue to be.
ReplyDeleteLove, Mason & Stacey Taggart
Dear Richard and family,
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you in this difficult time. I went to dental hygiene school with Jennie and she was always so genuine and pure. Jennie had a passion for learning and was such an amazing support for me through school. I will always cherish the memories of her and her lightheartedness and ability to bring laughter into others' lives. I will continue to pray for strength for you and your children!
Love always,
Kendall (Dicks) Perez
Dear Cornwall family,
ReplyDeleteI am so very saddened by the news I have just heard from your good friend Jason Andrews. He was kind enough to call us at the office to let us know. I will miss working with Jennie every Wednesday and I wish you all the strength and love in the world to make it through the most difficult times. One of the last weeks before Jennie left on vacation we were talking on lunch break about how we all met our spouses and she told me how she met you Richard. She was so happy telling me this story you could just tell she loved you with all her heart. I wish things had happened so differently for all of you because I know it will be a very long process for you and the kids. But I know that you will always be there for them to tell them stories about their wonderful mother who loved them so so much. I cannot really express my feelings entirely because the words are just not there for how badly I feel for your family. All of us here at Dr. Foster's office will miss her and we will be thinking about you and the kids.
Mallory, Jen, Cory, Emily & Jessica
I ran into a girl who Jennie & I worked with about 6 years ago in a dental office in Chandler, AZ, and she told me about Jennie's passing and I was so sad to hear about the accident. I worked with Jennie for about a year when I was right out of dental hygiene school before she went to another office. She was one of the sweetest people I have known. She helped me adjust from school to working in a dental office. We stayed in touch and she had her little boy about 6 months after I had mine. I remember going to her apartment in Mesa and we would take the boys in the pool. I know she was a great example to many people and even in the short time I knew her she left a positive imprint on my life. I wish I would have kept in touch with her better once she moved to Colorado. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteSincerely,
Jilene Brady